Anna and Lucy DeCinque are a pair of identical twins that shared more than just a womb. They share everything. They claim to be the “world’s most identical twins”, and they might be right about that…
Growing Up As A Twin
Born in Perth, Australia in 1985, Anna and Lucy have always shared a special bond, being twins and all. Their parents would often dress them up in the same clothes, as many parents of twins do, but little did they know how much this would affect their lives going forward.
Growing The Bond
The twins enjoyed the attention they got whenever they went out together. They were practically together all the time anyway. Even when they were old enough to dress themselves, they still continued to wear the same clothes, and eventually the same makeup. They also shared the same interests and tried to mimic each other as much as possible.
Mimics
By now, Anna and Lucy’s bond goes far beyond looks; they’ve made a commitment to being as identical to one another as possible. That means doing the exact same thing as the other twin regardless of what it is. They sleep at the exact same time as each other, on the same bed, and they even shower together.
Eating The Same
One of the things the twins do to make sure they’re as identical as possible is eating the exact same thing. They even measure each bite to make sure it’s the same amount, just so no twin gains more weight or gets different nutrients than the other.
Twin Toilets
Since the twins happen to eat the exact same thing at the exact same time, they tend to have similar bathroom schedules. Well, that’s not all, they also go to the bathroom together whenever they have to go. They share the kind of bond most siblings don’t even want to have.
Family Reactions
Anna and Lucy’s family has always supported their unique bond, but it wasn’t easy at first. Their mother initially worried about their intensity, fearing it might isolate them. Over time, she accepted their lifestyle, realizing it brought them happiness.
Sharing More Than DNA
The two don’t just share looks and habits, they share pain, too. They claim to feel each other’s physical sensations. If one twin stubs her toe, the other insists she feels it too. This phenomenon, they say, is proof of their deep connection.
Morning Routine
Every day, Anna and Lucy wake up at the same time, eat identical breakfasts, and exercise side by side. Their strict schedule is designed to ensure no differences arise. Even the smallest variation is unthinkable for them.
Cosmetic Surgery
To stay as identical as possible, Anna and Lucy underwent numerous cosmetic surgeries, including chest augmentations and lip fillers. But after a period of overindulgence, spending over $250,000 on plastic surgery, they decided to embrace a more natural look, undoing some procedures to focus on self-acceptance.
Their Commitment To Each Other
Anna and Lucy’s bond isn’t just emotional, it’s deeply practical. They share everything, from clothes to a toothbrush, believing it strengthens their connection. They never spend a moment apart from each other.
The Same Jobs
The pair have said they want to work the same jobs as well, so they have to look for places that’ll hire the both of them. Sometimes, they’ll even work for the same wage split between themselves, where one person volunteers for free, in order to maintain the exact same lifestyle.
Breaking Down Barriers
The twins definitely live an unconventional lifestyle, and it has gotten them a lot of hate over the years. They were relentlessly bullied as kids and still receive a lot of criticism today. But the sisters say the hate has brought them closer together, and they thrive in spite of it.
The Pressure Of Perfection
The sisters admit that maintaining their identical image can be exhausting. They constantly worry about aging differently or gaining weight unevenly. This pressure is a hidden struggle behind their otherwise glamorous life.
A Shared Love Story
If you thought bathrooms and beds were the only things these twins shared, you’re wrong. The twins’ romantic lives are as intertwined as the rest of their world. Anna and Lucy both fell in love with Ben Byrne, an electrician, in 2012.
A Relationship Like No Other
Anna, Lucy, and Ben’s relationship works because of strict balance. The twins ensure Ben spends equal time with each of them and avoids favoritism. They describe their connection as a “triangle of love” that breaks all traditional norms but works perfectly for them.
Their Bond with Ben
Ben describes Anna and Lucy as “one soul in two bodies.” He says their bond is unlike anything he’s seen and feels privileged to share a life with them. For the twins, Ben completes their “perfect triangle.”
Their Dream Wedding
While they can’t legally marry Ben in Australia due to polygamy laws, the twins dream of a symbolic ceremony where all three exchange vows. For them, it’s not about legality but celebrating their love and commitment to each other.
Parenthood
Since they’ve lived their whole lives doing everything together, Anna and Lucy want to complete that by doing another thing together, having kids. The two want to have the whole motherhood experience at the same time, including getting pregnant at the same time and giving birth at the same time.
The Challenges
Anna and Lucy have been trying for ages to get pregnant at the exact same time. But pregnancies are very difficult to get around and it’s going to be challenging for them to conceive simultaneously.
The Struggle with Fertility Treatments
The twins have explored IVF and natural conception methods, hoping to align their pregnancies. They admit the journey has been emotionally draining, with no guarantees of success.
All Or Nothing
The two sisters have also said that in case one of them ends up conceiving before the other, they would have to terminate the pregnancy. They really are that committed to the goal of being the world’s most identical twins.
A Shared Future
Anna and Lucy dream of growing old together, envisioning a life where they remain inseparable, even as they face the challenges of aging. They’ve even discussed living in the same retirement home one day, ensuring they’re never apart.
Reality TV Stars
The twins’ appearance on “Extreme Sisters” brought their story to millions. It brought them a lot of hate but also a lot of love. They’ve also appeared on the show “Botched” showing some of their cosmetic mishaps.
The Challenges of Twin Life
While their bond is unbreakable, it’s not always easy. Arguments over small details, like outfits or meals, can escalate quickly. But they often say they wouldn’t survive without one another. Their emotional connection is their greatest strength, helping them navigate challenges, criticism, and personal struggles as a united team.